Having a Narcissistic mother, older sister, I grew up with these 2 telling me what to do when themselves couldn't do anything better than me. I realized that I started doing it and I try to stop it, it's not only hyprocritic, it's a fake "helping, caring", it's in some cases I'm smarter than you or your problems are not that big, see hhow I can find out the soultions for you?