Hi Amanda, thanks for share this moment with us!
I don’t wanna try to tell that I know how you feel…what I know is about feeling prejudices and fingers points for other reasons, but for me what it counts is how I feel about anything, so I let myself to tell this:
Do you feel as a woman? therefore you are a woman. If the “outside” doesn’t correspond to what you would like…well, welcome to the women world! we are never satisfied with our looks honey…:-) !