So am I. What I responded: it's better regret not having them, if I'll ever, than regretting having them, and letting them feel it. See Corinne Maier is a French psychoanalyst, a mother and the author of a bestselling book, No Kids: 40 Good Reasons Not To Be A Mother. But in some cases as I wrote about couples having children under a civil war in their country as Syria, it's in my opinion criminal. No one asked to be born, we don't own to be grateful for a life that is fucked up. But women in the majority in these planet, don't have a word to say about it. In Africa, Asia, South America, and the USA were free choice for an abortion is reduced or it's zero, and the society prizes the motherhood as almost sainthood. It's hypocrite. It's criminal when most of men in prison are men of colour, fatherless. Women are pointed fingers when they don't want to become mothers.