Thank you Gary for this point of view. It’s very true, specially what you wrote about the bosses expecting the employees to have the same commitment as they have, since an emplyee don’t make the same money that the bosses in general do! Though it’s hard to not expect to your husband be faithful to you, when you are and have left cristal clear that fidelity is a require to you is a relationship…and so on, it’s easier to help people that you don’t know and don’t expected any thing back, but again when your family turned the back on you, yeak, we can tell your self that you don’t need anyone, untill you gat really sick or die and it’s up to public service to buried you body.