Thanks, Taryn! Reading some comments below is really pointed it out why we don’t communicate well enough! Some wonders why women (not only you) fakes an orgasm and then a man writes that he as well had faked one…

They want to accuse you Taryn and don’t want to get the message, we can only wonder why…

But Mark Benton comment gave me some hope back for the future generations! yeah, you need a big courage to recognize you’ve been sucked into something and you’re trying to do the hard work to be a better version of yourself.

An ejaculation is not equal to the man orgasm, but at the least man have it within minutes with only a friction, a woman orgasm (apart from a few ones that can have an orgasm riding a bike! lucky ones) need more time and more than one friction on their vagina!

So I believe selfishness of the most of men comes from a practical point. No wonder why women have not had sex with their husbands, boyfriends for other reason that the sex for its own sakes! And men have an excuse to have an affair or pay for sex!